When I was still in high school, I spent my march break riding along on the south shore of Nova
Scotia.
I worked with many different people that week and it was their passion
for EMS that help me choose my professional path to become an Advance
Care Paramedic today. Unfortunately, this month one of the most
memorable people that I spent a lot of time with during my first
experience in EMS took his life on March 8
, 2008.
When
I talk about some of my funniest memories that I have in EMS, more
often than not, Randy's name would appear. He had such a dry sense of
humor that kept everyone in the room interested. For me, as a young
student in high school, it was Randy's stories and comments about EMS
that help shape my views and perspective on emergency services.
Now, whenever a paramedic student joins us as part of their
educational requirement, I find myself reflecting back to my first week
in EMS and the advice and wisdom that was shared with me. It's easy to
forget the impertinence of being a preceptor and the lasting
impressions we leave with our students. After a week of being the brunt
of every joke and verbally abused as the station rookie, it was to my
surprise when I was pulled aside by Randy just before I left to go back
to high school. It was his
uncharacteristic
positive comments about the past week that made me want to begin
training for a career in EMS. I have often wondered what I would be
doing today if Randy hadn't taken the time to talk to me and share his
thoughts on EMS.
I may never truly understand the choices that
Randy made in life. For me I will remember the man that had such a
passion for fire and EMS and could never see himself doing anything
other than serving his community. Here is a short video celebrating the
life of Randy Neily.
NEILY, Randy Ernest - 51, New Harbour, passed away Saturday March 8, 2008, at home. Born in Berwick, he was a son of Colin (Eileen) Neily, Powell River, B.C., and the late Beulah (Zinck) Neily. He is survived by brother, Richard (Catherine) Neily, Falmouth, and their children, Joel (Irene Ferrara) Neily, Windsor; Lacey Neily, Calgary, Alta.; brother, Ryan (Catherine) Neily, Halifax; sister, Lorelei (Garnet) Becker, Powell River, B.C., and her children, Leah, Richard, Cory and Lisa Becker; special family friends, Philip and Dawn Publicover, Blandford; Patrick Trider, Hantsport. Cremation has taken place and a family service will take place at a later date. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Blandford and Area Fire Rescue. On-line condolences can be made at: www.rawalker.ca